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Toy shopping is a a pleasure which I was denied for a few years. But now that Black Friday is upon us, commenting on toys, well, it seems like the right thing to do before I retake Rome and play Warhammer 40K.
You can find dangerous toys at
www.toysafety.net. But that's mostly for the toddler set.
However, with older kids, those over eight, too many parents let vital decisions about appropriate entertainment be made by these same kids. The same kids who can't decide whether to eat ham and cheese or pb&j can bring in highly violent games to their homes because parents buy blind or on their recommendation with no research.
There is a very simple thing you can do to find out if a video game is age and content appropriate:
Rent them.
Blockbuster has video games to rents as well as consoles to play them on. So if you have a question about the appropriateness of a game, play it yourself. Ratings, are, at best, a weak guide to what game is acceptable. But you can play the game before you buy it. Don't take someone's word for it, or a review. Now some games, like GTA: San Andreas may be hard to get, but rentals are a great way to prevent purchases of subjects you don't want in your home.
It also will shut the kids up. Because you know the games.
First, games are more complex morally and technically than anything we played in our youth. Yet, many parents leave technical decisions in the hands of kids. Not just with games, but in all aspects of technology. Computers, mp3 players, kids buy them and parents cluelessly permit this.
Too many parents remain shockingly uninvolved in their child's tecbnological decisions. You only get busybodies trying to make their decisions on what you can see when you don't do the work to control your own home.
Some things are clearly not for kids, and it is your moral responsibility to control what comes into your home, not Lou Shelton, not the government and not Toys 'R Us. You.
Second, some games are just too complex for kids to play. Sure, eight year olds want Tony Hawk 2, but can your kid use the controls?
Third, once you open a game and play it, most stores will NOT take it back. They will exchange title for title, but you buy it, you own it. So if you think GTA:AS is vile, well, you better hop on ebay to sell it. That's why this is foreknowledge is so critical. You need to know what comes in your home before it does, because it's not a coat, a return is usually not possible.
It's simple, rent the games your kids want, send them away for the weekend or go to a friend's house on a weekend, play the games for an hour or so and then make your decisions. If you need to, rent the console as well.
Why? Because I'm tired of ignorant parents running to everyone screetching about how bad these games are. Play the fucking things before you buy them and you won't have anyone to blame. Squeeze that hour or so to make sure your kid is exposed to the values you want in your home.
And gaming systems are different.
Nintendo Game Cube appeals best to the 5-12 set. You don't have to worry about too many M rated games for Game Cube. My nephew had a PS 2, and was sav